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Bonk

Mary Roach

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Explore the intriguing intersection of science and human sexuality, as this book delves into the history, research, and surprising facts about our most intimate behaviors.

You'll learn

Learn1. How does sex affect our bodies and behavior?
Learn2. The story of sex research.
Learn3. Why is sex important for our health?
Learn4. How does sex impact society and culture?
Learn5. Tech meets sex research.
Learn6. Let's talk about sex education.

Key points

01What's so tricky about understanding sex?

Diving into the world of sex research, as Mary Roach does, is like navigating a minefield. It's a world filled with hush-hush topics, societal taboos, and a whole lot of awkwardness. But it's also a world filled with fascinating discoveries, groundbreaking studies, and the potential to improve our intimate lives. Back in the day, studying sex was a surefire way to get yourself ostracized. Take James Piatt White, for example. In 1851, this American gynecologist was kicked out of the medical society for letting his students watch a woman give birth. Apparently, that was a big no-no, a violation of the woman's privacy and a breach of societal norms. Then there was Emo Nograth, who in 1875, got a whole lot of flak from the Gynecological Society for daring to talk about venereal disease, a topic that was considered off-limits. These stories show just how much societal, religious, and political barriers have stood in the way of sex research. The fear of public opinion and backlash has often made scientists think twice about openly studying and discussing sex. Even today, these challenges are still around. Scientists often resort to using fancy words, like "physiological" instead of "sexual," to describe their research. It's a clever trick to make their work sound less controversial and more acceptable to those who hold the purse strings and the public. But despite these hurdles, there have been brave researchers who've dared to study sex, societal disapproval be damned. Roach talks about the pioneering work of Masters and Johnson, who did extensive research on how humans respond sexually. Their work has been key in developing treatments for sexual dysfunction and enhancing our understanding of human sexuality. Roach also delves into the often-ignored role of the clitoris in female pleasure. She talks about how the mix of technology, medicine, and culture shapes our understanding of sex, and how this understanding can be used to improve our intimate relationships. In a nutshell, studying sex, despite all the societal hurdles, is important. Roach argues that sex isn't something to be hushed up, but a vital area of study that can significantly improve our personal lives. By shining a light on the scientific study of sex, she encourages us to embark on a journey of discovery and understanding, and to use this knowledge to spice up our intimate relationships.

02How did sex evolve from animals to humans?

In the early days, studying the birds and the bees was a lot more literal than you might think. Scientists, wary of societal backlash, turned to our furry and feathered friends to understand the ins and outs of human sexuality. It was a bit like trying to learn French by studying Latin - you could get the gist, but the nuances were lost in translation. Enter Robert Latu Dickinson, a gynecologist with a daring streak. He decided to take the bull by the horns and study human sexuality directly. He asked his patients about their bedroom habits, a move that was as groundbreaking as it was controversial. Dickinson was the first to shine a spotlight on the clitoris, a key player in female pleasure that had been sidelined in the male-centric world of sex research. He also gave a thumbs up to the "woman on top" position and saw masturbation as a normal part of the sexual repertoire. Then there was John B. Watson, the so-called father of behaviorism. He was convinced that sexual issues were the root cause of marital strife. To prove his point, he conducted lab experiments, studying the sexual responses of his female students. This eyebrow-raising approach eventually cost him his career, but his work on arousal and orgasm still stands. But the real rockstar of early sex research was Alfred Kinsey. He dreamed of setting up a lab to study human sexual responses, but the fear of being labeled a pervert put a damper on his plans. So, he got creative. He filmed people in the throes of passion, right in their own homes. His subjects were mostly fellow scientists and their wives, but he also included folks with stuttering, paralysis, and amputated limbs. He noticed that their symptoms eased during sexual arousal, hinting that the body's drive to procreate could override other physical sensations. Some folks raised an eyebrow at Kinsey's methods, but according to author Mary Roach, he was just a guy on a mission to understand human sexual pleasure. Despite the hurdles and hiccups, these early sex researchers paved the way for future studies, helping us understand the complex world of human sexuality.

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03What's the deal with vaginal orgasms?

04Is erectile dysfunction medical or mythical?

05What really happens during an orgasm?

06How does the mind and body connect in female sexuality?

07What can we learn from gay couples about sex?

08Conclusion

About Mary Roach

Mary Roach is an American author specializing in popular science and humor. Known for her accessible, informal style, she explores unconventional scientific topics. Her works include "Stiff", "Spook", "Bonk", "Gulp", and "Grunt", each delving into the quirky aspects of human biology and behavior.

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