Don't Forget Your Crown

01Don't let myths about guys' behavior excuse bad actions in relationships

In "Don't Forget Your Crown," Derrick Jaxn tackles some of the biggest myths about men's behavior in relationships. These myths have been around for so long, they've become part of our society's fabric, leading to a cycle of unhealthy relationships. One of these myths is the idea that a man will change his ways for the right woman. This myth suggests that a man's bad behavior is just a defense mechanism, something he does when he feels threatened. But that's not true. A man who's really committed to becoming a better person will do it for himself first, and then for his partner. His actions shouldn't depend on the woman in his life, but on his own personal growth and development. Another common myth is that all men cheat, and that a faithful partner is hard to find. This is a harmful lie that's been used to justify infidelity. Cheating isn't something you're born with; it's a choice. Nobody is destined to be unfaithful. If a man truly loves his partner, he'll stay faithful. The idea that a man can love his partner and still cheat on her is a damaging misconception that society has helped spread. This myth has made many women accept infidelity and disrespect as part of their relationships. But a committed relationship should be about loyalty and respect. Accepting anything less is settling for less than you deserve. The last myth Jaxn talks about is the idea that men are attracted to confident women. While this would be great, it's often not the case. Many men feel threatened by confident women, seeing them as a challenge to their ego. As a result, they might try to undermine the woman's confidence to assert control. This can create a toxic dynamic where the woman is constantly put down and gaslighted, leading to a decrease in her self-esteem. A confident woman might find herself attracting men who are more interested in bringing her down than in building a healthy relationship. In "Don't Forget Your Crown," Jaxn stresses the importance of self-love and self-respect. He encourages women not to buy into these myths and to stand up for themselves in their relationships. He also shines a light on the excuses men often use to justify their behavior, empowering women to recognize and reject these excuses. It's important to remember that many women find themselves in abusive or unfaithful relationships but are scared to leave because of societal stigma or worries about their children. Jaxn's book is a reminder that everyone deserves respect and loyalty in their relationships, and that it's crucial to put your own well-being first.