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Growing Up Spiritually

Kenneth E. Hagin

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Explore the journey of spiritual growth and maturity, and learn how to deepen your connection with your inner self and the divine.

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Learn1. What's the roadmap to spiritual growth?
Learn2. Wanna get closer to God? Here's how.
Learn3. Why faith matters in your spiritual journey.
Learn4. Overcoming spiritual roadblocks - tips and tricks.
Learn5. The Holy Spirit's role in your spiritual journey.
Learn6. Making the Bible practical for everyday life.

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01Are You Stuck in a Spiritual Crib?

How often do we equate the passage of time with actual, measurable growth? In the natural world, if a person has been alive for thirty years, we automatically expect them to walk, talk, and act like a thirty-year-old adult. Yet, Kenneth E. Hagin points out a fascinating and somewhat tragic reality in "Growing Up Spiritually": in the realm of the spirit, time does not automatically equal maturity. A person can be a spiritual newborn for decades, trapped in an invisible crib of their own making, completely unable to digest solid life lessons. This opening concept is absolutely foundational to understanding the entire book, as it forces us to confront the uncomfortable truth that spiritual aging and spiritual growing are two entirely completely different things. To truly grasp this, consider the natural birth process. When a baby is born into the world, it is a magnificent, joyous occasion. The parents celebrate, the family gathers, and there is a profound sense of new beginnings. The newborn is perfect in their infancy, but no parent wants their child to remain in that state forever. If a child reaches the age of five, ten, or twenty and is still drinking from a bottle, wearing diapers, and crying to be carried, the initial joy of birth is replaced by deep sorrow and medical concern. Hagin masterfully applies this exact same logic to our spiritual lives. When someone experiences a spiritual awakening or a new birth, it is a glorious start. But the author emphasizes that it is merely a starting line, not the finish line. Many people mistakenly believe that once they have found their faith or had a spiritual awakening, the work is completely done. They settle into the pews of their respective communities, assuming they have arrived at their final destination. This is the exact mindset that leads to arrested spiritual development. Hagin argues that the Creator expects us to grow, to develop muscles, and to eventually take on the responsibilities of the household. We are meant to evolve from being completely dependent on others for our spiritual nourishment to becoming self-sustaining adults who can actually help feed and protect the younger, weaker members of the community. Why is it so easy to get stuck in this spiritual crib? The answer lies in the comfort of infancy. Babies are not required to do anything. They do not have to work, they do not have to pay bills, and they certainly do not have to take responsibility for their actions. Everything is done for them. If they are uncomfortable, someone else changes them. If they are hungry, someone else feeds them. In a spiritual context, many individuals prefer this dynamic. They rely entirely on their pastors, mentors, or spiritual leaders to spoon-feed them inspiration, pray for their problems, and constantly validate their feelings. They want the benefits of a spiritual life without doing the heavy lifting required to build spiritual muscle. Hagin challenges his readers to take a hard, honest look at their own lives. Are you constantly relying on others to fix your internal atmosphere? Do you fall apart the moment a crisis hits, waiting for someone more mature to rescue you? If so, you might be dealing with the symptoms of prolonged spiritual infancy. The beauty of this book is that it does not condemn the reader for being a baby; rather, it provides a loving but firm wake-up call. It tells us that it is perfectly fine to be a baby when you are first born, but it is an absolute tragedy to remain one when you have been in the faith for years. The transition out of this crib requires a deliberate, conscious decision to seek growth. It means stepping out of the comfort zone of being served and stepping into the challenging arena of learning. Growth is rarely comfortable. Just as a physical child experiences literal growing pains in their bones and joints, a spiritual child will experience the friction of having their ego challenged, their habits corrected, and their perspectives forcibly broadened. But this pain is highly productive. It is the friction that polishes the stone. As we journey deeper into Hagin’s insights, we will explore the exact characteristics of these different stages. By understanding the specific traits of babyhood, childhood, and adulthood, we gain a clear metric by which to measure our own development. We stop guessing about our maturity and start objectively evaluating our reactions to the world around us. The ultimate goal of this first step is to awaken a burning desire within you to grow up. It is a call to throw away the spiritual pacifier, to climb out of the crib, and to start walking on your own two feet toward the rich, fulfilling, and powerful life of a mature spirit.

02The Innocent Yet Irritable Spiritual Baby

What does a spiritual baby actually look like in everyday life? Kenneth E. Hagin provides a fascinating and vivid breakdown of the very first stage of spiritual development, characterizing babyhood by three distinct traits: innocence, ignorance, and irritability. By closely examining these three pillars, we can easily identify the spiritual infants in our own lives, and perhaps more importantly, recognize the lingering infantile traits within ourselves. This phase is beautifully paradoxical; it is filled with a refreshing purity, yet heavily burdened by a complete lack of emotional and spiritual resilience. Let us first dive into the concept of innocence. When a natural baby is brought into the world, there is nothing quite as pure. They have no past, no malice, and no hidden agendas. They are a completely blank slate. Hagin explains that in the spiritual realm, the new birth provides this exact same level of profound innocence. When a person first comes to faith or experiences a true spiritual awakening, their past mistakes, regrets, and burdens are washed away. There is a honeymoon phase of spirituality where everything feels new, vibrant, and clean. This innocence is incredibly attractive and inspiring to older, more mature believers. It reminds the entire community of the simple, unadulterated joy of first discovering truth. However, this beautiful innocence is tightly coupled with the second characteristic: ignorance. A natural baby does not know that a hot stove will burn them, that gravity will cause them to fall off a bed, or how to articulate their complex needs. They are entirely dependent on the wisdom of their guardians. Similarly, a spiritual baby is largely ignorant of how the spiritual world operates. They do not yet understand the deeper principles of faith, the importance of long-term endurance, or the subtle tactics of spiritual adversaries. Because of this ignorance, they can easily stumble into situations that harm them, or they may enthusiastically embrace teachings and ideas that are actually detrimental to their growth. This ignorance is not a sin; it is simply a fact of being newly born. But it heavily dictates how mature individuals must handle them. You would never aggressively scold a six-month-old baby for not knowing how to solve a calculus problem or for dropping a glass on the floor. In the same way, Hagin stresses that mature believers must exhibit extraordinary patience with spiritual babies. When a new believer makes a theological blunder, falls back into an old bad habit, or asks a seemingly foolish question, the mature response is not harsh correction, but gentle, guiding love. They simply do not know any better yet. The third and perhaps most disruptive characteristic of babyhood is irritability. This is where the rubber meets the road in spiritual communities. Natural babies are easily upset. If their milk is too cold, if their diaper is wet, or if they are simply tired, they do not politely ask for assistance; they scream. They demand immediate attention and have zero capacity to consider the feelings or schedules of anyone else in the room. Hagin points out that spiritual babies operate on this exact same wavelength. They are incredibly easy to offend, easily bruised, and entirely self-centered in their spiritual walk. Think about a common scenario in an office, a volunteer group, or a local church. Have you ever encountered someone who completely abandons an organization just because the leader did not greet them at the door, or because someone sat in their preferred seat? They get their feelings hurt over the most trivial, insignificant matters. They expect the pastor, the leader, or their peers to constantly coddle them, visit them, and validate them. If they do not receive constant praise and attention, they throw a spiritual temper tantrum, often gossiping, complaining, or dramatically exiting the community. This extreme irritability and sensitivity is the absolute hallmark of a spiritual infant. Hagin uses this characteristic to hold up a mirror to his readers. How easily are you offended? When someone offers you constructive criticism, do you absorb it and grow, or do you immediately become defensive and angry? When the spotlight is on someone else, do you feel neglected and resentful? If your emotional equilibrium can be completely destroyed by a passing comment or a perceived slight, you are likely still operating in the realm of spiritual babyhood. Spiritual babies are entirely governed by their feelings and external circumstances, rather than being anchored by internal truth and stability. Understanding these three traits—innocence, ignorance, and irritability—completely changes how we interact with others. Instead of becoming furious with a highly sensitive, easily offended colleague or community member, we can quietly recognize, "Ah, they are just a spiritual baby." This realization breeds compassion instead of conflict. It allows leaders to create safe environments where babies can be babies without destroying the fabric of the organization. But for the individual reading the book, Hagin’s message is clear: do not stay here. It is natural to be ignorant and irritable at the beginning, but it is highly unnatural to remain that way. Overcoming babyhood requires a commitment to learning, a deliberate effort to stop taking things so personally, and a shift from asking, "What can this community do for me?" to asking, "How can I begin to contribute?" It is the first massive step away from the crib and toward the sturdy, reliable legs of a growing child.

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03Why Spiritual Babies Need Pure Milk

04The Unsteady and Talkative Spiritual Child

05Overcoming the Growing Pains of Childhood

06Stepping Into True Spiritual Adulthood

07The Ultimate Mark of Maturity is Love

08Conclusion

About Kenneth E. Hagin

Kenneth E. Hagin was an influential American preacher known for his teachings on faith, healing, and prosperity. He is often referred to as the father of the "Word of Faith" movement. Hagin authored numerous books and founded the Rhema Bible Training College in 1974.