He's Just Not That Into You
Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
12 min
6 Key Points
4.2 RateWhat's inside?
Uncover the truth about men's behaviors and learn to interpret their actions to understand their real feelings and intentions towards you.
You'll learn
1. What's he really saying?2. Why won't he commit?3. Stop chasing the wrong guys!4. Love yourself first, always.5. Time to ditch bad relationships.6. Find a partner who values you.Key points
01He's just not that into you
Let's talk about "The Plague". No, not the historical event, but a metaphor we're using to describe a certain type of guy or relationship situation that you should steer clear of. Think of it as a toxic relationship that can wreak havoc on your life, just like a real plague. Greg, our resident guy-expert, is here to help you spot the signs that a guy is just not that into you. He's got a whole list of guys you should avoid, and "The Plague" might just be one of them. These are the guys who are emotionally distant, play mind games, or just aren't looking for anything serious. Now, Liz is here to give you the female perspective. She knows how tough it can be to accept these hard truths. But she's here to back up Greg's advice, even when it's a bitter pill to swallow. For instance, if a guy is constantly brushing off your feelings or not responding to you, Greg's going to tell you straight up: he's just not that into you. And Liz? She's going to tell you to see this as a big, red flag and think about moving on. So, "The Plague" is basically a metaphor for a harmful relationship or a type of guy that you should avoid. By spotting these signs early, you can save yourself a lot of heartache and find a relationship that's healthy and fulfilling.
02He's not saying it, so he's not feeling it
Let's talk about guys and dating, shall we? You know, that tricky territory where signals get mixed, and you're left wondering if he's into you or not. Well, here's the no-nonsense truth: if a guy is really into you, he'll show it. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. Take Jodi, for instance. She's got this guy friend she's been tight with for about ten years. She thinks his friendly vibes are flirty, and maybe he's just too shy to make a move. But let's get real here. If he was really into her, he would've made his move by now. The fact that he hasn't? Well, it's pretty clear he's just not that into her. This is a common theme we see all the time. Women making excuses for guys, saying they're just shy or scared. But let's cut the crap. If a guy is really into you, he'll ask for your number instead of giving you his. He'll call when he says he will, and he won't leave all the relationship work to you. Then there's Leslie. She's been all hung up on this guy who hasn't even asked for her number, even though he gets her all excited. But Leslie's made a smart move. She's decided to stop wasting her time on a guy who's not showing clear interest in her. Good for her! And ladies, let's talk about asking guys out. It might seem like a good idea, but it can backfire. If you ask a guy out, it can create a situation where he feels like he can slack off because you're more invested than he is. Not cool. So here's the bottom line, ladies. Know your worth. Don't settle for guys who don't show clear, consistent interest in you. Stop making excuses for their lack of action or interest. Instead, focus on finding a guy who values you and shows it through his actions. It's as simple as that.
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03He's taken or emotionally closed off
04He dumped you, move on
05He's abusive, get help
06Conclusion
About Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
Greg Behrendt is a comedian and relationship consultant who co-authored the best-selling book "He's Just Not That Into You". Liz Tuccillo is a writer and producer, known for her work on "Sex and the City" and co-authoring "He's Just Not That Into You".
