How to Be a Bawse
Lilly Singh
43 min
18 Key Points
4.1 RateWhat's inside?
Discover the secrets to success in life and career with practical advice and motivational tips from a successful entertainer and entrepreneur.
You'll learn
1. Nailing the hustle game2. Beating life's hurdles3. Keeping your head up4. Making your brand pop5. Bossing up and leading right6. Juggling work and play.Key points
01Being a 'Bawse' is tough but rewarding. It's all about dedication and hustle
So, you wanna be a Bawse, huh? Well, let me tell you, it's not a walk in the park. It's all about dedication and hustle. And no, I'm not talking about the dance move. Let's break it down. Dedication is like being that marathon runner who's out there every day, come rain or shine, pounding the pavement. They don't let a little thing like a thunderstorm or a twisted ankle slow them down. They're all in, 100%, no matter what. That's the kind of commitment you need to be a Bawse. You gotta be all in, whether it's your personal life or your career. Now, let's talk about hustle. It's not just about working your fingers to the bone. It's about working smart, not just hard. Think about a successful business owner. They don't just work 24/7. They find clever ways to grow their business, like networking, streamlining their operations, or coming up with new, innovative products. That's the kind of hustle you need to be a Bawse. Take it from me. When my dance team didn't make the cut, I didn't let it get me down. I took it as a learning experience and used it to fuel my fire. I focused on what I could control - my actions and reactions - and used them to turn the situation around. That's what a Bawse does. They don't let setbacks get them down. They use them as stepping stones to reach their goals. Think of it like a video game. As you level up, the game gets tougher. But you also get better. You learn new skills, get faster, and become more strategic. That's life. As you face challenges, you learn and grow, becoming better equipped to handle whatever comes your way. So, to sum it up, being a Bawse is about dedication, hustle, learning from your mistakes, and growing from your challenges. It's a mindset, a way of life. It's about conquering life, one level at a time.
02Your mind is your superpower. Keep it positive
Hey, let's talk about something super important - your mind. It's like the boss of your body, calling all the shots. If you think you can't do something, your mind will be like, "Yeah, you're right. Let's not even try." But if you believe you can, your mind will be like, "Heck yeah, let's do this!" That's why it's so important to keep your mind in a positive space. Imagine your mind is a garden. If you plant good vibes, you'll grow good thoughts, which will lead to good actions. But if you plant bad vibes, you'll grow bad thoughts, which will lead to bad actions. So, it's super important to fill your mind with positivity, just like a gardener takes care of his garden. Lilly Singh, the author of this book, shares her own experiences to show how this works. She used to struggle with negative thoughts and self-doubt, which stopped her from reaching her goals. But when she started to think positively, things started to change. She took more risks, grabbed more opportunities, and achieved more success. But here's the thing - keeping a positive mindset isn't a one-and-done deal. It's a continuous process that needs constant effort. It's like taking care of a garden. You can't just plant the seeds and forget about them. You have to water them, pull out the weeds, and protect them from pests. In the same way, you have to keep feeding your mind with positive thoughts, kick out the negative ones, and protect it from bad influences. And remember, having a positive mindset doesn't mean you ignore the bad stuff in life. It means you acknowledge them, but don't let them control your thoughts and actions. It's about focusing on the good stuff and using it to overcome the bad. So, in a nutshell, your mind is your biggest asset. It has the power to shape your life. So, keep it positive. By doing so, you'll be able to control your actions and conquer life, just like Lilly Singh did.
Continue reading with LeapAhead app
Full summary is waiting for you in the app
03Emotional intelligence is key. It shows you're growing and improving
04Made a mistake? Learn from it and move on
05Exercise your self-control muscle to make it stronger
06Love yourself first. It's not selfish, it's self-love
07Goals need constant effort. Keep pushing
08Know what you want from life. A clear vision helps
09Understand your field and show your potential to win
10Start small and make the right choices to reach your goals
11Don't let one thing make or break you. Keep a balanced perspective
12Failures mean you're trying. Keep going
13Surround yourself with smart people but keep investing in yourself
14Protocols holding you back? Sometimes, you need to break them
15Communicate effectively to make your goals clear
16Be polite to everyone. They might help you level up
17Let your environment inspire you. Fill it with reminders of your goals
18Conclusion
About Lilly Singh
Lilly Singh is a Canadian YouTuber, comedian, talk show host, and actress, widely known as "Superwoman." She gained fame for her comedic and inspirational videos, and later became the host of "A Little Late with Lilly Singh" on NBC. Singh is also a motivational speaker and a New York Times bestselling author.
