It Takes What It Takes

01Life's a mix of past, present, and future experiences

Life's a journey, right? That's what Trevor Moawad is getting at. He's saying that our lives aren't just a bunch of random events. Instead, they're a mix of our past, present, and future experiences. Each moment is linked and influences the next. Let's break it down. Our past experiences are everything that's happened to us so far. They shape our beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors. Say you've had a string of bad relationships. You might start to think you're just not good at relationships. This belief can then affect how you act in your current and future relationships. Our present experiences are what we're dealing with right now. They're influenced by our past, but they can also shape our future. For example, if you're working on your communication skills, this could have a positive impact on your future relationships and job prospects. Our future experiences are what we're looking forward to or aiming for. Our past and present experiences shape our expectations and goals for the future. If you've had a successful career and you're enjoying your work, you might aim for more challenging roles in the future. The relationship between these three aspects of our lives is always changing. Our past shapes our present, our present shapes our future, and our future influences how we interpret and respond to our present circumstances. Let's look at a real-life example. Picture a pro athlete who's had a successful career (past), but is now dealing with a major injury (present). This injury might make the athlete question their future in the sport. But, if the athlete sees this setback as a chance to build resilience and learn new skills, they can positively influence their future. In a nutshell, understanding that our lives are a mix of past, present, and future experiences can help us take control. It encourages us to learn from our past, make the most of our present, and shape our future to match our goals and dreams. This is what it means to think neutrally and take control of our lives, just like Trevor Moawad suggests.