Uncommon

01What's being 'uncommon' all about?

Ever wondered why some people seem to lead lives that are more fulfilling and impactful than others? It's not about the size of their bank accounts or the number of awards on their shelves. It's about being 'uncommon'. Tony Dungy, in his book "Uncommon: Finding Your Path to Significance", introduces us to this concept. Being 'uncommon', according to Dungy, is about choosing a path of significance over a path of success. It's like choosing to take the road less traveled instead of the highway. The highway might get you to your destination faster, but the road less traveled offers a journey filled with meaningful experiences and lessons. Choosing the path of significance is not without its challenges and sacrifices. It's like climbing a mountain. The journey is tough, the weather unpredictable, and the path, often unclear. But the view from the top is worth every struggle. Dungy shares the story of a young man who gave up a lucrative career to work with underprivileged children. He faced financial struggles and was often criticized for his decision. But he stayed true to his values and found fulfillment in making a difference in the lives of these children. Dungy firmly believes that everyone has the potential to be 'uncommon'. Your current circumstances, whether you're a CEO or a janitor, do not limit your ability to choose a path of significance. He shares the story of a single mother who, despite her struggles, chose to raise her children with love and integrity. Her children grew up to be responsible and compassionate adults, making her life 'uncommon' in its own way. Being 'uncommon' is all about choices. It's about choosing to live a life of significance over a life of success. It's about choosing to stay true to your values, even when it's easier to compromise. Dungy shares the story of an athlete who chose to miss an important game to be with his sick child. His team lost the game, but he won the respect of his teammates and fans. Sacrifice plays a crucial role in being 'uncommon'. It's about giving up immediate gratification for long-term fulfillment. It's about giving up what you want now for what you want most. Dungy shares the story of a businessman who gave up a lucrative deal because it went against his principles. He faced financial loss, but he gained peace of mind and respect. In conclusion, being 'uncommon' is about choosing a path of significance, staying true to your values, making conscious choices, and embracing sacrifice. It's about leading a life that is not just successful, but also meaningful and impactful. As Dungy puts it, "You weren't made to be common. You were born to be uncommon."