Have a New Husband by Friday
Dr. Kevin Leman
21 min
9 Key Points
4.3 RateWhat's inside?
Discover practical strategies to transform your husband's attitude, behavior, and communication style in just five days, leading to a happier and healthier relationship.
You'll learn
1. How to get your hubby to listen and change2. Tips to chat better with your spouse3. Keeping things positive in your relationship4. Quick fixes for your marriage5. Boosting respect in your marriage6. Understanding your man's mind and using it wisely.Key points
01Got a new hubby in a week?
"Imagine this: by the time Friday rolls around, you've got a brand new hubby on your hands. That's the big idea behind Dr. Kevin Leman's approach to sprucing up your marriage. It's not about waving a magic wand or making your man change overnight. It's about taking small, daily steps to influence his attitude, behavior, and the way he communicates. Think of it like a five-day workout plan for your marriage. Each day, you focus on a different 'muscle group'. Monday might be all about beefing up communication. Tuesday, you're working on respect. Wednesday, it's time to spice up intimacy. And so on. You're not just sitting around thinking about it, either. You're doing specific exercises and strategies to help shape your husband's behavior. Now, don't get it twisted. This isn't about saying 'I do' and then kicking back and relaxing. Marriage is like a dance. It takes two to tango, and both partners need to keep moving to the beat. This five-day plan is a reminder that a good marriage needs constant effort, understanding, and a whole lot of respect. It's easy to get caught up in our own needs and forget about our partner's. But a good marriage is like a seesaw. It needs balance. This plan is all about helping you find that balance again and reignite the respect that makes a marriage work. This isn't about tricking your husband or pulling the strings behind the scenes. It's about understanding what he needs, talking to him in a way he understands, and building a relationship based on respect and understanding. By the time Friday comes around, you'll see a husband who's more attentive, understanding, and loving. It's like having a brand new hubby! So, when we say "From Monday to Friday, a new husband emerges", we're not talking about a magic trick. We're talking about a practical, step-by-step approach to making your marriage better. It's about understanding, communication, and respect. And by the end of the week, you'll see a husband who's a better partner, making for a happier, more satisfying marriage."
02Post-honeymoon blues?
Ever heard the saying, "From wedded bliss to this?" It's a feeling many couples can relate to after a few years of marriage. It's that shift from the butterflies-in-your-stomach, can't-keep-your-hands-off-each-other phase to the "why-does-he-leave-his-socks-on-the-floor" phase. It can be a real downer, making you wonder where the fun and excitement went. Dr. Kevin Leman, a relationship expert, says this is pretty normal. The honeymoon phase can't last forever, and it's common for things to settle into a routine. But don't worry, that doesn't mean the love and excitement are gone for good. They're just buried under piles of laundry, unpaid bills, and miscommunication. For example, you might find yourself getting annoyed with your hubby for not helping with the dishes, or for forgetting to take out the trash...again. You might even start to wonder where the charming guy you married went. But Dr. Leman says these feelings of frustration don't mean the end of your happy marriage. They're just signs that it's time to put in a little elbow grease to bring back the spark. So, what can you do when you find yourself in this situation? Dr. Leman suggests two options. One is to throw in the towel and accept that this is just how marriage is. The other, which he highly recommends, is to roll up your sleeves and get to work. And no, this doesn't mean making huge changes or grand gestures. It's about making small, consistent efforts to change your attitude, improve communication, and tweak behaviors. Dr. Leman himself is living proof that this approach works. He's been married for 35 years, and he says his relationship with his wife is as exciting and fulfilling as it was when they first tied the knot. And it's not because they got lucky or because they're special. It's because they've made a conscious effort to keep their relationship strong. So, when you find yourself thinking, "From wedded bliss to this?" remember it's a wake-up call. It's a reminder that while the honeymoon phase might fade, the love and companionship don't have to. They can be nurtured and strengthened with a little effort and commitment. It's about not settling for a mediocre marriage, but striving for a great one.
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About Dr. Kevin Leman
Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally recognized psychologist, author, and media personality. Known for his wit and wisdom on relationships and parenting, he has written over 50 books, including the bestseller "Have a New Kid by Friday." He is a frequent guest on national media outlets.
