Idiots
Laura Clery
18 min
7 Key Points
4.7 RateWhat's inside?
Dive into a hilarious and heartwarming journey of a woman navigating through marriage, motherhood, and life's unexpected mishaps.
You'll learn
1. The real deal about marriage and kids2. Learning from your own mess-ups3. Keeping a smile on your face daily4. The lowdown on breastfeeding5. Growing and finding yourself through life's rollercoaster6. Juggling work and family like a pro.Key points
01Laura Clery's first birth plan went awry, ending up in the hospital instead of at home
Laura Clery, a well-known comedian and author, has a childbirth story that's as unique as she is. When she was pregnant, she became obsessed with birth stories. She watched countless videos of women giving birth in all sorts of ways - at home, in hospitals, with no pain relief, in water, and even DIY births. She was so inspired by these stories that she decided to have a home water birth herself, with a doula and no medical interventions like epidurals. She had everything set up for her son Alfie's arrival at home. But, as often happens in life, things didn't go as planned. Instead of giving birth at home, she ended up in a hospital. The labor was intense and painful, so much so that her husband found it hard to watch. But despite the change in location and the intensity of the experience, her birth story became a hit, with over 60 million views on Facebook. This wasn't just because she's famous, but also because of the unique circumstances of Alfie's birth. Alfie was delivered with the help of a vacuum, a device used when labor is taking too long or there are health concerns for the mother or baby. The vacuum, which is a cup with a handle and a pump, is inserted through the vagina and attached to the baby's head. It helps guide the baby through the birth canal while the mother pushes. Laura's experience with vacuum-assisted delivery was both scary and magical. The vacuum, despite its strong suction, was lightweight and fit perfectly. This, along with the unexpected turn of events, made her childbirth experience one to remember. In her second book, written during her second pregnancy, Laura goes into more detail about her experiences. She talks about her birth story, her struggle with postpartum depression, and the challenges she faced after delivery. She also shares her biggest regrets, her thoughts on keeping love alive, and how she balances her career with being a mom of two. Her book gives a raw and intimate look into her life, giving readers a peek into her experiences as a woman, a wife, and a mom. If you're interested in learning more about Laura's views on womanhood, her book is a must-read. It's a detailed and engaging look at her journey, making it a great resource for anyone interested in understanding the complexities of childbirth and motherhood.
02Clery advises expecting moms to ditch birth fantasies and brace for reality
In Laura Clery's hilarious and brutally honest book, she dishes out some real talk about the fantasy versus reality of childbirth. She shares her own rollercoaster ride of a pregnancy and the tough decisions she had to make about her birth plan. At first, Laura was all about the dreamy idea of a home birth. She pictured a calm and magical experience, guided by a midwife. She found this midwife in Maude, who she thought of as a fairy godmother of sorts, ready to lead her through a peaceful and miraculous birth. This was her dream - a beautiful, natural home birth that would be a life-changing experience. But then, reality started to crash the party. Throughout her pregnancy, Laura felt a whirlwind of emotions, from pure joy to sheer panic, which she found hard to put into words. Her hubby, Stephen, wasn't exactly on board with the home birth idea, worried about the old-school and not-so-reliable equipment in Maude's office. Despite his worries, Laura held onto her dream, even when an ultrasound showed that her baby was a bit on the larger side, which could make a home birth tricky. Maude, on the other hand, was still all for the home birth, brushing off the concerns about the baby's size after checking Laura with some old-fashioned measuring tool. This only fueled Laura's dream, but also planted a tiny seed of doubt. The game-changer came when Laura stumbled upon some not-so-glowing reviews about Maude on Yelp. This was a slap in the face from reality that made her rethink her birth plan. She realized that if something went wrong during the home birth, it could have serious, life-changing consequences for her and her baby. This wake-up call led her to make the tough decision to ditch the home birth plan and go for a hospital birth instead. Making this decision was even harder for Laura because of her self-proclaimed People-Pleasing Character Defect (PPCD). In simple terms, this means she was worried about hurting Maude's feelings. PPCD is a common trait in people who've had rough relationships in the past. It's marked by a lack of personal boundaries and a strong need for approval. In the end, Laura's story is a wake-up call about the risks of getting too caught up in fantasies when making big decisions. She urges others to do their homework before choosing a doula or midwife, and to always keep it real when it comes to childbirth.
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03Each of Clery's births were unique experiences
04Clery's second birth was medically hastened, despite her initial plan for a natural birth
05Clery believes all governments should provide postnatal care
06Childbirth changed Clery's life, even impacting her social media career
07Conclusion
About Laura Clery
Laura Clery is a renowned American comedian, actress, and social media influencer. She gained popularity through her humorous videos on Facebook and YouTube. Clery is also the author of the memoir "Idiots: Marriage, motherhood, milk, and mistakes", where she shares her personal life experiences.
